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I think about a lot of things. I have opinions about most. What good are thoughts and opinions when not shared? I'll show you mine if you'll show me yours. Issues related to education really get me going. I love to dine on the hot potatoes of school accountability, standardized testing, corporal punishment in schools (outlawed in only about 28 states), scrutiny of school staff before hiring, teacher performance standards, and the weeding out of bad apples in education. I promote fitness as the miracle drug most of us seek. No pill will duplicate the health benefits of working our bodies. I strongly support the adage, "Don't breed or buy while shelter animals die." The world does not need more puppies or kittens. A visit to a local shelter is proof. I consider myself schooled in basic personal money management, the entrepreneurial spirit, domestic adoption, motherood in middle age, Baby Boomer issues, Southern culture, and how to cook a meal in twenty minutes. Whew. So, where shall we start?

This kind of slowdown doesn't come around enough
Contributed by: Barbara Neff   on 7/5/2008

Slowdown? These days slowdown has a negative connotation as it relates to the economy.

Homes on the market are moving slowly. Tourism has slowed because of budget crippling fuel prices. Entertainment has been set aside as the cost of daily necessities soars.

I just got home from a different sort of slowdown, and I use the word in the best possible sense.

Before gas prices broke three dollars per gallon, our family had already planned a month's vacation on a lake in a land far away, the land of my upbringing, Arkansas. Had we known how much gas would cost this summer for an SUV pulling a small ski boat eight hundred miles, we might have reconsidered.

Some things are better left unknown.

I found an adorable cottage in Hot Springs, Arkansas, on one of our favorite lakes, Lake Hamilton, at VRBO.com (vacation rentals by owners). It featured two tiny bedrooms, a closet-size bathroom, a struggling air conditioner and a kitchen overrun with ants. But, those were not the best parts.

The very best parts of our temporary abode on Lake Hamilton were the huge, waterside screened porch and its close proximity to the edge of the lake. Spitting distance. Oh, and all the friends and family who stopped in and stayed awhile.

The tiny cottage has no landline, spotty cell service, no internet, no local newspaper delivery and only a few satellite channels, which precluded even local TV news.

At first, a withdrawal sort of panic set it. We are as wired as the next family. My husband conducts most of his business by cell phone and email. We rely heavily on cell phones throughout the course of a typical day, as well as email, newspapers and TV news. Could we survive such...such....isolation?

Our wide eyes and racing hearts relaxed soon enough. I'd say within seventy-two hours the weight of a way-too-connected world melted from our shoulders and a special sort of euphoria ensued. No one could reach us. We could not reach anyone. We knew not of the world's goings-on. Neener, neener.

My husband would drive each morning to a resort nearby, sit in their lobby and access their wireless internet for the purpose of conducting business. He could also make cell phone calls from there. Sometimes he'd buy a local newspaper to bring back to the cottage.

As visitors arrived, I'd ask if anything was happening in the world outside of which we should be aware. During the entire month, only two news stories were related to me, the flooding Mississippi River and the death of a famous person, someone in the media, I think, whose name I cannot even now recall.

"That's it?" I would ask.

Visitors would concentrate briefly, try hard to relay big news, then shrug.

"Yep. Can't remember anything else."

Wow. This slowdown was working nicely.

All good things end. Besides, coming home after a long vacation, especially to Colorado, is a good thing in itself. Nothing like sleeping in one's own bed for the first time in over a month and sitting down to a regular meal at the regular time at one's own table.

Soon I will have sifted through more than four hundred emails, returned dozens of voicemail messages and sorted at least 1,000 pieces of snail mail. I should take heart, I suppose. Gone, maybe, but we definitely were not forgotten.




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Submitted By: Joe McDaniel
posted on 7/20/2008 @ 12:05:20 PM
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The world survived your absence. Hard to believe.
Submitted By: William Boucher
posted on 7/13/2008 @ 5:47:07 PM
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envy.
Submitted By: Jamie VanEaton
posted on 7/12/2008 @ 12:19:24 PM
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How is your arm? It sounds like you had a lovely time! Did you guys eat the fish or were they catch and release?
Submitted By: Sara Crowe
posted on 7/11/2008 @ 10:06:34 PM
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Sounds fab...hope you get to go back soon! Here's to me wishing that as a next vacation...
Submitted By: Karin Malchow
posted on 7/10/2008 @ 12:27:14 PM
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Sounds close to perfect. Glad you're back, though.
Submitted By: Gladys Mercier
posted on 7/8/2008 @ 10:11:45 PM
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Glad you had a nice relaxing month. Welcome home.
Submitted By: Michael Rule
posted on 7/6/2008 @ 6:14:49 AM
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Ah yes. Those long days of summer next to a lake with a fishing pole in hand. Your story takes me back to when I was a kid, and mom would take us to our Uncle's rustic cottage on a lake in Michigan. Catching fish and catching frogs. Staying up late and sleeping in. What could be better?
Submitted By: Katherine Jerome
posted on 7/5/2008 @ 7:24:51 PM
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Sounds divine Barbara!
Submitted By: Tom Treloar
posted on 7/5/2008 @ 4:50:44 PM
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It is nice to get away but, there is no place like home.
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Barbara Neff

Castle Rock , CO

Barbara Neff has posted 130 blog entries and 839 comments since joining on 9/14/2005. Barbara Neff 's average blog rating is 4.97.
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