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I think about a lot of things. I have opinions about most. What good are thoughts and opinions when not shared? I'll show you mine if you'll show me yours. Issues related to education really get me going. I love to dine on the hot potatoes of school accountability, standardized testing, corporal punishment in schools (outlawed in only about 28 states), scrutiny of school staff before hiring, teacher performance standards, and the weeding out of bad apples in education. I promote fitness as the miracle drug most of us seek. No pill will duplicate the health benefits of working our bodies. I strongly support the adage, "Don't breed or buy while shelter animals die." The world does not need more puppies or kittens. A visit to a local shelter is proof. I consider myself schooled in basic personal money management, the entrepreneurial spirit, domestic adoption, motherood in middle age, Baby Boomer issues, Southern culture, and how to cook a meal in twenty minutes. Whew. So, where shall we start?

Bonnie and Clyde: Heartless, not heroic
Contributed by: Barbara Neff   on 4/23/2007

The 1967 blockbuster movie about Bonnie Parker and Clyde Barrow featured two of Hollywood's most hip and glamorous, Warren Beatty and Faye Dunaway. Beatty's Clyde and Dunaway's Bonnie were gorgeous, gun-toting desperados audiences just had to love. Bonnie and Clyde must have been cool, right?

Not according to historians. By all accounts of their bloody rampages in the 1930's, Bonnie Parker and Clyde Barrow were a couple of losers, similar in emotional vacancy, feeding off each other's greed, rage and thirst for killing. People sure seem to have a way of finding each other.

Now the mad mass murderer who struck on the Virginia Tech campus has his day in the sun. Much like Bonnie Parker and Clyde Barrow, every detail of his life and each of his twisted words are on display, and we are fascinated. Spellbound, really.

This nut who likely made no positive difference in his pathetic little life is today exactly where he fantasized of being at any cost to others or himself. He is important. He is famous. He will be long remembered. His dreams have come true.

The most chilling aspect of the killer's highly publicized ramblings, in my opinion, is his naming of other high profile school killers and joining his name with theirs in his very public, self-serving excuse making. He is one of them, he clearly states. What are they? They are martyrs, the nut asserts. They do their killing because , as he repeats, "you made me."

Blaming victims is terribly unoriginal. It is the oldest excuse in the book. You provoked me. You enticed me. You pushed my buttons. You made me hurt you.

I suspect people who commit horrific acts of violence then blame victims share a common trait. They are terrified of their own reflections. Blame is the name of the game. As negative emotions grow and behaviors deteriorate, they become, I am guessing, completely incapable of looking into the eyes in the mirror and realizing, "I need to change."

In the end, mass murderers can call it whatever they wish. Payback. Revenge. A social statement. But, if we buy their excuses, I believe we are guilty and negligent.

Many issues surrounding mental illness need a good hard look. Identifying mental illness is a complex ball of wax all by itself, especially when those suspected of being mentally ill do not recognize their own problems. Forcing people who appear mentally ill into programs for treatment or arresting them is next to impossible, even if the clearest crystal ball shows they are dangerous.

Mental illness aside, the most prominent issue I believe we need to address in our world today is our glorification of the murderously insane, which only prompts the next murderously insane to grab the only sort of glory within reach.

The road to glory is not paved with the blood of innocent victims. Or, is it?




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Submitted By: Patrick Bunn
posted on 4/30/2007 @ 6:35:19 PM
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That was an amazing blog. I enjoyed reading it very much. Your writings are outstanding.
Submitted By: Tabitha Dial
posted on 4/25/2007 @ 2:22:41 PM
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Wow, Barbara. Wow. Thanks for writing this.
Submitted By: Gladys Mercier
posted on 4/24/2007 @ 11:27:13 PM
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Good blog Barbara. It is very hard to get help for someone with mental illness unless you have good insutance or lots of money.
Submitted By: Joan Edelman
posted on 4/24/2007 @ 4:21:53 PM
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Hi, I am waiting for them to talk about his mental illness. I wonder if they put him on meds. Some of those meds, if they are the wrong ones, can put a person over the edge. sincerely, Joan
Submitted By: Michael Rule
posted on 4/24/2007 @ 8:55:29 AM
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I agree with you 100%. When my friend was murdered, the papers devoted a huge amount of space to the killer, a couple of paragraphs to the fine man he killed. I have been campaigning for a few weeks now to have that man's face who dragged that woman to death in Surrey Ridge removed from the "Most Popular" section of YourHub. I think we as a civilization have a morbid fascination with our mortality and those who would take it away. I grieve for those families who lost their children at V.T.
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Barbara Neff

Castle Rock , CO

Barbara Neff has posted 130 blog entries and 839 comments since joining on 9/14/2005. Barbara Neff 's average blog rating is 4.97.
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