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Blog Entry 94 of 151 Bad Mom
I call myself Bad Mom because at the time I came up with it, I was learning about the assumptions we put behind our words. I was following the pattern of not believing that my kids are okay, and speaking to them from that basis. I changed that, and it made a big difference. I am from Utah and my people are still living there. My husband was in the Air Force and we rattled around until we saw Colorado, and we stuck.

Things we lean on are things that don't last
Contributed by: Lisa Arata   on 6/30/2008

Another seventies reference--the Al Stewart song--Time Passages.

Greatest songs of the seventies:

Black Water by the Doobie Brothers
The Year of the Cat by Al Stewart
Maggie Mae by Rod Stewart
Hello, It's Me by Todd Rundgren

Anyhow...

I've had some trouble with my teenager lately and today I find myself in a spin. It's surprising to notice what's going on now.

I had a friend whom I alienated through a gross mistake, and now I wish so much I had her to talk to, but she's disowned me.

I had a kid I could count on to find a path and pursue it, only now it seems she's stepping into some territory, and gets hostile all the time.

I'm starting to find a way for myself more and more, yet what good does it do if I can't talk to my remaining friends about my older kid, because their kids are doing better and I don't want mine to get a damaged reputation from anything I do or say. What good is experiencing life if there's no one to share it with?

I didn't realize what I had.

I do havea pretty goodhusband.

All I can do now is be thankful to the Superintelligence for the new things I'm beginning to see.



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Lisa Arata

Greeley , CO

Lisa Arata has posted 151 blog entries and 235 comments since joining on 4/18/2007. Lisa Arata 's average blog rating is 4.78.
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