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Blog Entry 173 of 357 Father Knows... Something. Let's figure out what.
This is my outlet to share with the world all the things I've learned - and continue to learn - about being the Father to 3 young children. But I should warn you that my experience is probably NOT yours: my wife and I adopted a sibling set of 3 - all 6 years old and younger - while in our 40's. We've heard that, "it keeps you young," but so far, it has mostly kept us tired... But like any parent, our kids teach us something new every day and I hope to share at least something here with you as I can. The entries will be short - time constraints will probably keep it at or around a mere 200-400 words - but as they say, brevity is the soul of wit. Let's hope I can create some brevity here. So if you read something you like, please leave a comment. If you read something you don't, please just leave. (Just kidding - I'd love to hear from critics as well.)

Not just another family meal


It was a Sunday night and we were having dinner. The boys were having dinner that is; the girls were out preparing a week's worth of VBS snacks. This meant that Daddy Dinner Rules were in full effect, so everyone was in good spirits.

(I should explain 'Daddy Dinner Rules;' the main course is protein and that doesn't rule out large amounts of cheese. For legal purposes, the vegetable can be - but isn't limited to - cheese puffs or potato chips. There is still no playing at the table, but 'passing' 'vegetables' is considered sharing. It is well known that I will punish every belch... shorter than 3 seconds in duration. And you have to finish your 'vegetables' before you get ice cream.)

As the boys ate I turned around to check my e-mail, (another Daddy Rule - TV and electronics are generally approved rather than generally denied), when I heard D-Man say, "yay - didit" from behind my right shoulder. Recognizing his usual cry of conquest, I immediately turned to see what it was he had "did:"

D-Man: "Yay - didit."

D-Man: "What did you do?"

D-Man: "Made the noise."

I should point out that learning one or both of my boys had "made noise" is akin to discovering that dogs bark.

D-Man: "You made a noise? What noise?"

D-Man: "Dis noise." I watched as he looked into his lap and feared the worst/funniest. He then moved his fingers in a strange way and I suddenly caught on to what was happening: he was snapping his fingers.

At 31 months and a handful of days, my son was already snapping his fingers and making a noticeable sound while doing so. That's impressive enough. But what really takes the cake is the fact that he learned it entirely on his own.

Nobody had yet "worked with him" on it - he had only seen me doing it in order to direct the dogs in where they should go. And he learned it that easily.

It both impresses and intimidates me, frankly...

Chris Stone is a slightly different - hopefully better - Father and man than he was yesterday...

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