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Blog Entry 27 of 30 My Life Amongst the Y-Chromosomes.
"Parenting is a "skill", much like oh, say, juggling, at which I believe I will never really be any good. But, also like juggling, it is much more fun to do with a solid sense of humor and the occasional cocktail." -Nikki Britain Mother of a 7 year old, and 22 month old identical twins. All boys.

Baby Steps
Contributed by: Nikki Britain   on 1/20/2008

Grant took his first steps Thanksgiving night. Five or six wobbly movements forward, his arms raised into the air like a marathoner crossing the finish line.

Friends and family watched as he stopped, swaying slightly, only three small steps from my outstretched arms. They began to applaud, cheering him on, and scrunching his hands into fists, he propelled himself the final few feet into my lap.

It was one of those moments that makes all the mundane daily tasks of motherhood worthwhile. A milestone moms around the globe have scribbled into baby books everywhere. My "baby" wasn't a baby anymore. He was officially uprightly mobile!

His younger (by ten minutes) brother, Tate, followed suit two weeks later. Surprising me one evening by suddenly launching himself away from the baby gate and into the middle of the room where his twin sat with a coveted blue fabric block. Tate pulled the toy from his brother's hands, turned, and walked away with it. I guess sibling rivalry can be a great motivator!

Now, nearly two months later, my twinkies are attempting such advanced skills as running, spinning, and "dancing". A new favorite "game" is to walk quickly toward each other, purposely collide, and then fall backward, laughing the entire time.

And my new project is attempting to cover all sharp corners in the house with puffy foam, in an effort to circumvent a trip to the emergency room. They have been granted entry into the 'Bumps, Bruises, and Sutures' stage. (And I consider myself lucky to have health insurance with a reasonable co-pay.)

One year ago, I had two six month old babies with croup. Today, although to me they will always be "my babies", I am watching the growth and development of two distinct individuals. They may only be two feet tall and walking with the skills of Mel Gibson after last call, but nearly every day I see something new.

They may only be taking baby steps, but they sure are doing it quickly.

And in this month of January, the time of resolutions, I would imagine we are all taking baby steps of our own. Starting a new, meat-free diet (Bill, the food-product animals of the world and your small intestine say, "Thank you!").....

Buying that first house or starting a family..... Filling out financial aid forms (and forms and forms and yet more forms!) to start college..... Conquering the fear of beginning a new career..... Reconnecting with loved ones or family.....

Or perhaps, as in my case, something seemingly so simple: Being in the moment with my children and focusing on all the little things they each do every day that make up the memories of childhood. (I know I won't be nominated for 'Mother of the Year' so I like to think I am shooting for 'Mother of the Hour'.)

We all have something we are working toward, one baby step at a time. Keep the faith, folks. Keep taking those little steps. Keep pushing. Keeping trying. With determination, come rewards.

"You can do what you have to do, and sometimes you can do it even better than you think you can."
- Jimmy Carter

Happy New Year, friends!




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Submitted By: Nikki Britain
posted on 1/29/2008 @ 4:37:58 PM
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No they won't, Mike... I won't be able to afford the car insurance for three boys. (Can you imagine?!?) They will walk everywhere. Barefoot, uphill, and in the snow... just like I did when I was a kid.
Submitted By: Mike Keleman
posted on 1/29/2008 @ 6:51:06 AM
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Hmmm, we've got a big Superbowl party planned and puffy foam corners might be in order for some of the adults. Before you know it, the twins will be driving :)
Submitted By: Barbara Neff
posted on 1/26/2008 @ 9:36:11 AM
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hahahahahahaha. Just don't say, "Excuse me, Miss? What should I do with this bag?" Your twins are wonderful, Nikki. Can't wait to meet big brother.
Submitted By: Nikki Britain
posted on 1/25/2008 @ 5:17:46 AM
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"Excuse me, Miss? I just wanted to say thank you!" :-D
Submitted By: Barbara Neff
posted on 1/24/2008 @ 5:18:10 PM
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Nikki, this is great! Now that I know Grant and Tate in real life, I am especially excited to read of their progress. Mother of the Hour. I love it. It's the best goal I have heard in a very long time. You win.
Submitted By: Nikki Britain
posted on 1/23/2008 @ 5:41:36 AM
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Hi Brendan! Here's a little 'mom guilt' for you: Missed you at Beer Night a couple weeks ago.... :-D
Submitted By: Nikki Britain
posted on 1/23/2008 @ 5:39:31 AM
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Thank you, Gladys! You are so right.... they are growing up so quickly. There is a lot of work, but they are so much fun, I don't seem to notice. Well, until I fall asleep on the couch before the news is even over! Ha!
Submitted By: Nikki Britain
posted on 1/23/2008 @ 5:34:57 AM
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Robin, thank you!! The "puffy foam" works but my house looks like I've packed it up to be shipped overseas... ;-)
Submitted By: Gladys Mercier
posted on 1/22/2008 @ 8:29:38 PM
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Oh Nikki,what precious kids. Enjoy them, they grow up way too fast.
Submitted By: Brendan Leonard
posted on 1/22/2008 @ 12:14:09 PM
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I will attest to all of those things, EMAK.
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Parker , CO

Nikki Britain has posted 30 blog entries and 783 comments since joining on 1/5/2007. Nikki Britain 's average blog rating is 4.97.
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