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Ice Princess - The Thaw
Contributed by: Kevin Platts   on 2/14/2007

As you may recall, I work with a young lady who has been having problems meeting guys. As I said earlier, her problem isn't her looks or her brains, but is primarily centered around the fact she has been deemed "unapproachable" by virtually every guy who has even the slightest interest in her.

She exudes an air of "non-interest," which appears to be a major turn off to most men. I believe she send these signals out as she has high standards and wants to ensure she keeps the "riff raff" away. Whatever her rationale, the fact is most guys are not going to approach a person who sets themselves apart. Guys view these type of women as "hard targets" with the belief they (the guys) will be "shot down," so why waste their time or risk embarrassment.

I've spoken to Ice Princess about the perception people have of her and many months ago she agreed it would probably be best to "soften" the image she exudes.

Good news: a new guy in my office has an interest in Ice Princess. Ice Princess is intrigued by his interest and appears to be thawing somewhat. She even agreed to "bump" into this guy so he had the opportunity to meet her.

I still believe Ice Princess is somewhat unapproachable, which has made it hard for the new guy to speak with her further, but I have high hopes that a date for both may be closer than even think.

Who knows? Perhaps their mutual attraction will actually lead them to speak to one another without me having to "arrange" the meeting. Let me tell you, this whole "cupid" thing get old pretty quickly.

I will keep you posted.

To read my other thoughts, please visit my blog at: www.advice-smoke-and-mirrors.blogspot.com



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Kevin Platts

Parker , CO

Kevin Platts has posted 178 blog entries and 5 comments since joining on 5/16/2006. Kevin Platts's average blog rating is 4.8.
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