Of Self Perceptions & Realities
The wicked queen of 'Snow White' fame was a faithful advocate of routine self-assessment, through mirror imaging. Verifying her status and worth with the mirror did render a distinct advantage in her situation.
Having the wise man as her reflection to give advice and direction was truly an asset. Although her reasons were sinister in nature, the basic concept of routine self-appraisal was a prudent notion. Periodically questioning our status and realities can offer an exemplary education and insight, if we are open to the experience
We would begin by examining the basics. Do we really know who we are?
Are we aware of what we want, need and require?
Where is our current path taking us? Do we display a
true vision of who we are or simply a distorted perception of the reality; a facade? Knowing the answers to these questions and many more like them is vital to achieving our goals and fulfilling our destiny. If there is doubt then it is time to reach inside, connect to the inner self and discover our truths.
Unfortunately we are left without the benefit of the sage in the mirror to offer advice and inspiration. Our motivation must come from our own determination and desire to live our dreams.
Too often we keep our dreams and fantasies locked away. We hide them in a safe place within the dark recesses of our minds, afraid to let them venture out into our real world. What we don't realize is how those secret desires affect us emotionally and physically.
Or how they hinder our ability to make effective choices and decisions. We tend to live within the confines of societal dictates and our decisions and paths are influenced by the opinions of family and friends. Unfortunately, this gives others the power to affect our truths and realities. The good news is that we don't have to. There is a way to live a more fulfilling and productive life and realize our dreams. The answers lie within us. The way and means are open to us.
The journey into our inner self is not always easy or uncomplicated, but is necessary in defining goals and fulfilling our destiny
. The discovery of self must come from within, without restrictions, inhibitions or tainted by outside influences.
It requires examining values and visions and learning to saying no. It means never settling for less than what we really want and involves
experimenting and taking risks. We must hold our own power and reclaim possession of our life experiences and happiness.
The image we see in the final analysis will reflect the strength and confidence we gain and offer a clear vision of our life's design.